A couple is the union of two individuals. It can be bound by interpersonal relationship, which can be physical or intimate depending on where the connection is coming from. It is a unique invisible bond that makes two different individuals one in spirit.
Love & Marriage
A couple expresses their love for one another through marriage. People marry for certain reasons, which include legal, social, emotional, economical, spiritual and religious. And yet it is also acknowledged that people marry for them lives on their own and build a family.
Marriage can also be called matrimony. It is formalized by a wedding ceremony which can be in a church or a garden or any place of choice sacred to the couples. The act of doing so creates an obligation between the individuals involved. They are joined by a legal contract and a promise that they will be together for eternity. And the violation of the terms of marriage is called adultery.
Till Death Do Us Part
Couples should work together on their marriage. If the situations demands, both should work on it as one, not individually. Sometimes a couple both know what the problem is but could not solve it because of pride or one's selfishness. And yet they learn from problems to make their relationship stronger.
Support and mutual aid with each other is needed to deal with problems. Problems should be tackled immediately to prevent from the loss of appetite for love and understanding. A married couple should not let the sun go down without talking about problems and fixing them.
Conversations and healthy communication is the key to a longer relationship with the one you love. Problems are inevitable, but as long as a married couple sees it as part of life as a whole, they will not be affected by it negatively, but constructively.
Happily Ever After
Getting married is about friendship. One’s loved one is also his best friend. They should see each other as their confidants. They share common interests and happy moments to create happy memories they could reminisce in the future. They talk regularly and share opinions, even healthy arguments. One opens up his secrets to the love of his life.
Getting married is a promise of regular good sex. It is a satisfaction that cannot be obtained from people other than your wife or husband. Married people are obliged to give pleasure to one another. It increases intimacy and bond. It means giving everything to the one you love most.
Getting married is about security. Security starts when you build a family, have your own home, raise kids and send them to school. You wait for them to grow up and raise their own families. Nobody can live forever, but everybody wants to have someone to hold hands with when they are old. In all of the worlds, people tend to look for someone to be with them during the most troublesome times, and share the good times of the past.
Being with the one you expect to love you as you have always wanted to be is the fulfillment of childhood dreams of princes and princesses. It is always thought that everything will be okay in the end, but life does not always have a fair weather. Though, in order for marriage to work out, both need to do their obligations and responsibilities. So in the end, we live happily ever after.
