Infidelity

Cheating, lying, betrayal, disloyalty, adultery...

What makes it painful is that the fact that one uses deception deliberately to violate an established expectations in a relationship. In common terms, it describes an act of unfaithfulness to one’s husband, wife, or lover, whether sexual or non-sexual in nature.

I stumble in one of the forums, where infidelity is the issue, some of them condemn the mistress, and some of them forgive and understand. But who is really are to blame? It is the wife who gives anything? The wife who makes her husband “that cheats” a king? The husband who works hard for a living? Or the mistress that has only found true love with those married guy/girl they met? Is it a question of morality?

There are numerous of reasons why a person commits infidelity. Some people may want to supplement a marriage, solve a sex problem, gather more attention, seek revenge or have more excitement in the marriage, peer pressure, fall out of love. As one of the forumer said, “Infidelity is just like a cigarette, he will go through several brands and variations of a brand, and then settle on say, Marlboro Lights. That is what he lives with day in and day out, the Marlboro Lights. There is no assurance he will not have a puff of say the black Marlboro or a Winston, but he will go back again to his Marlboro Lights.”