Who doesn’t want an exciting sex life? On some couples, mostly those who are being together for long now, sex has becoming less and less even none anymore. Other couples discover their sex pleasures on later stages of the marriage, wherein they adjusted to each others likes and dislikes. The desire to make your partner happy and the connection and intimacy makes up to a more spice sexual relationship with your partner. Stimulate the excitement of passion by discovering both your sexual adventures together. A little effort and creativity will do, here are some ideas on how to spice up your marriage and make your sex life as intimate and fulfilling:
Read Romantic Stories Together - Erotica is not harmful to anyone. Pornography through words, pictures and writings which are sexually exciting are sometimes helpful to couples relationships. Taking turns to read enables each of the couples more comfortable with themselves talking about sex, their desires and even fantasy about sex to their partners. This is one healthy thing about being open to each other, to make each other know how to get their partner excited, or interested in what will you do and thus giving both the pleasure of it.
Watch Romantic Movies Together (Alone) – Watch movies that have stories in it. It just don’t have to be sexy, it has to be appealing to the couples taste to get excited and interested. Love and be loved with the romantic scenes. Light the fire with the moments of togetherness. You may cuddle one on one another to have the thrill and surprise of being romance by the romantic movies you are watching.
Play games together (Adult/Couple games) – Couples should try to play games too, its part of the life that they should. Fantasy is one element that is encouraged in adult games. Some games are pick-to-do-cards, where in you will pick something you’ll try to do with your partner. Cards used are somewhat steamy and hot things that are usually done by couples. Another game could be a card game they call “Fan the Flame”, where in there couples write their sexual fantasy wish in a blank card when drawn. Sometimes, it’s easier to write what we can’t say out loud right? The box of cards to draw also includes a “guess” card to test how well you know your partner, and “flame” cards that suggest you must have a reward for guessing it correctly. This only implies, having games with your partner is fun, and get intimate at the same time. Cool huh?
Arouse your wits – Focus on other various senses that may enhance your lovemaking. Wearing sexy perfumes helps especially for women. Soft and slow music on the background adds up too. Dim lights and sexy lingerie’s composes the visual excitement. Try touching yourself in front of your partner, sometimes it stimulates arousal and makes each other excited. Experiment on different ways of caressing each other, sensitivity over the entire body heightens the excitement of having sex. Try on using food syrups or liquors poured on sensual parts of the body to lick it and have fun with it. This is one creative way to stimulate desire for other sensual treats.
Workout together – Exercise can help you look good and feel good. It doesn’t only keep you from sickness but also keep you in shape for more sex and potency. Both sex and exercise is proven to eliminate stress. Doing this regularly makes you more relaxed and happy. It also increases sex desires. And please do not forget sex, can burn calories, so you needed more energy. Exercise is the answer to that, even a 20 minutes exercise can make a difference in your energy level, and also of course on your overall health.
Do random sex – Don’t get bored to usual your usual couple sex rituals. Do something random, something you both didn’t expect you can do. You can do this by having written some of your ideas on paper and then make it like a lottery on a box. Try to make as much as possible including your fantasies, and some more erotic activities you both can enjoy.
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